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In this video, Rabbi Chaim Brovender discusses the issue of speaking or thinking on Shabbat about matters that are not in the spirit of Shabbat that have already taken place. This, he says, does not fall under the category restrictions derived from the passages in Yeshayahu.

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Last Updated on Sunday, 4 July 2010 02:11

In this video, Rabbi Chaim Brovender discusses some of the halachot involved in tidying up the house on Shabbat when it is already late in the day, when your efforts will likely be of more benefit to you after Shabbat than it will be on Shabbat itself.

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 22 June 2010 12:08

In our parsha we read of the Meraglim, the spies who were sent by Moshe in the second year after they left Egypt to spy out the land of Israel, as preparation to enter into it. We know that because of the slanderous report that they brought back to Moshe, they, along with all of Bnei Yisrael, were condemned to wander another 38 years in the desert, during which time all of the people of that generation died out, before they were finally allowed to enter the land.

After a somewhat demoralizing account of what the spies saw on their excursion –Enemies! Fortified cities! Children of giants! – the verses there state (Bamidbar 13: 30-31):

וַיַּהַס כָּלֵב אֶת הָעָם אֶל מֹשֶׁה וַיֹּאמֶר עָלֹה נַעֲלֶה וְיָרַשְׁנוּ אֹתָהּ כִּי יָכוֹל נוּכַל לָהּ:
וְהָאֲנָשִׁים אֲשֶׁר עָלוּ עִמּוֹ אָמְרוּ לֹא נוּכַל לַעֲלוֹת אֶל הָעָם כִּי חָזָק הוּא מִמֶּנּוּ

Caleb silenced the people to [hear about] Moses, and he said, “We can surely go up and take possession of it, for we can indeed overcome it.”

But the men who went up with him said, “We are unable to go up against the people, for they are stronger than we [ממנו].

On this verse, Rabbi Chanina bar Papa comments (Sota 35a) that rather than reading the text as “they are stronger than we (ממנוּ – mimenu)”, it can be read alternatively as, “they are stronger than Him (ממנוֹ – mimeno)” – that is, God. They are in essence saying that God Himself is not strong enough to go up against the enemies in the land and help Bnei Yisrael succeed in overcoming them!

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 1 June 2010 10:04

I was at an erusin (engagement party) this past Sunday night, where I heard a Rabbi speak about the quality of simcha – joy. It’s very easy to be sad, he pointed out. If you wake up in the morning and you didn’t get enough sleep, and you feel tired, then you’re sad. If you go to make your coffee and you find you’re out of milk, then you’re sad. If you go to get dressed and you can’t decide what to wear, and you don’t like any of the clothes hanging in your closet (granted, a more likely occurrence among women) then you’re sad. Sadness can take on many permutations, such as frustration, disappointment, grumpiness, exasperation, and lack of motivation, but really, all of these emotions come from the same place. We, as flawed and finite beings, are able to see only a small fraction of the ultimate Reality, and so we inevitably perceive flaws in our own small “reality”. The result is that you can always find plenty of reasons to be sad, and it’s very easy to let yourself succumb to it. In that sense, sadness could really be attributed to laziness. It requires substantial effort to overcome the instinctive feelings that arise when things aren’t “just right” or when a situation isn’t quite what you wanted it to be.

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Last Updated on Thursday, 17 June 2010 11:34